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Things Vindictive Women May Do
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They may lie about domestic violence and obtain a PFA (Protection from Abuse) Order, to sway the court in her favor when it comes to custody. A judge may rule in her favor by "ruling on the side of caution." (See Parental Alienation Syndrome)
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They may post shameful pictures, content or videos of you on the internet.
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They may say things in front of your new wife or girlfriend to try to get you in "trouble." She wants you to fight with your wife. Your unhappiness will be her pleasure.
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She may use your children as leverage in order to try to get what she wants from you.
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Here's a good one...She may use a transcriber service to call you while you're with your wife. She types what she wants to say, from her computer. The transcriber then reads the message to you over the phone and when you respond, the transcriber types your response back to her. She pretends to be someone else and claims to have recently "been with" you.
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She may put you through hell, but acts sweet and innocent to your family and friends. She tries to stay close to your family in order to stay close to you, or just to piss you off.
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She may try to turn your kids against you and/or your wife. Check out information about Parental Alienation Syndrome.
How to Deal with a Vindictive Woman
- Ignore what you can. If she sees that her actions have little to no affect on you, her efforts should gradually cease.
- Do let her get to you. When it's possible, ignore her and just concentrate on you, your new family and your children. Just be the best person you can be and especially the best father you can be.
- If things are really bad, do some research at your county courthouse or speak with a lawyer. There may be some type of legal action you can use to make her stop. Restraining orders are always good.
- Limit contact with her. Only speak with her in regards to the children and arrangements to be made in regards to the children. If you must, only contact or allow her to contact you, through email or text messages. This is also good because you will have everything she says to you documented and you may be able to use these in court, in your favor. Be careful though as to what YOU say. She may be thinking of doing the same thing.
