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I'm sure that every woman is a little different, but the most common reasons that ex-wives act vindictively are...
- Jealousy/Envy
This is especially true if you are remarried and have additional children with your new wife. Maybe she is having regrets about the divorce, or maybe not. Perhaps she is one of those "I don't want you, but I don't want anyone else to have you either."
She may be angry because you're happy with someone that is not her. (My husbands ex-wife wanted him to get a vasectomy and he wouldn't. She didn't want him to have children with anyone other than her. We now have 2 children together).
- Attention
She's acting childish to receive attention. Instead of being an adult and putting her children first, she acting like a child to get your attention. Perhaps to try to take your attention away from you new relationship and redirect it to her. It's all about her!
- Unhappiness
Because she's not happy, she doesn't want you to be happy either. She may try to break up your current marriage or relationship by constantly being in the way, or putting stress on you. Don't let her get to you! If you're stressed, your environment becomes stressed. Don't let the stress from her effect your current wife, your children or your home.
Sometimes, even after a relationship or marriage is over, she stills has feelings for you. If you were together for an extended period of time also, sometimes the change of life is hard to deal with. Perhaps she feels like if she keeps you in her life, even with her negative actions, that she will keep your attention.
- Fear of your new wife
She may be afraid that her kids actually like your new wife and enjoy spending time with you guys together. She may be afraid that her kids will like your new wife better than they like her. Possibly, she's scared that the new wife is going to replace her in her childrens lives. She may be afraid that the children will have too good a time with you and your new wife that they will want to live with you, instead of her.
- She's just a Bitch
Let's face it, sometimes, she's just a bitch at heart. Maybe you didn't see it before, when you were together because you were "blinded by love". Or maybe you did see it and this is the reason your marriage has ended. Chances are, if she's a bitch, she always has been and that is not going to change.
